Letters From Within #1

Dear Loved Caged In, 

I know that you are currently going through this issue right now. It's fresh and you are trying to heal, which is normal. For the past few days you have been doing such a good job and I'm so surprised by it--but in a good way. Maybe because you have been down this road before. Although I know that you are filled with love, thoughts, memories and passion for him, I ask that you please try your best to stand your ground and not put yourself in a position to get disrespected. Lack of communication is needed for the time being. Space is imperative at the moment, and although you may feel as strongly as you do, give it some time and give YOURSELF some time to get over this. Please refrain from allowing the "love beast" to escape and act out of character. Allow him to explore his feelings and thoughts, but please, DO NOT take this situation personal. You never know what can happen with time, or maybe you do, because you've been here before. But don't hold your breath. Focus on you! Please still go about your life. You are beautiful, smart, caring, passionate, young woman, that I have the pleasure of knowing and still learning about you. Anyone that ends up with you will be TRULY BLESSED with someone magnificent! Don't let this situation compromise your self-esteem, confidence, and your womanhood. Don't look at your BIG heart as a negative. It definitely can be used against you in situations like this, but that's EXACTLY what this world is missing--genuine people. Please do not let this one incident stop you from sharing that with others. I'm not gonna lie and say that you won't have your moments, but one thing I can GUARANTEE is that you will be fine. Know that he will never forget about you. Although you miss, want, and love him, know that he is feeling the same exact way, just doing a better job at suppressing it due to his confusion. 

Always remember, the sun always shines after a series of storms!

Stay up BEAUTIFUL! ;-)

Love, 

Mel B